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55 1/4
When it was my birthday in March, the Scientist had had to drop plans for a special birthday for me turning 55. It was that day that we went into lockdown and the best we could do was to bring home take away food to enjoy with the family. I had a good day anyway and life carried on.
A few weeks ago on the Friday, the Scientist said to me we were going out the next day and I needed to be ready to go by 10am. I wasn’t too sure what that was about so I was kind of curious. On Saturday I got up and got ready to go out and we ended up driving out through a new section of highway we hadn’t used before. It was kind of neat to see it from the car. I’ve rode out that way on my bike but not so far as we went this time. We turned off to Bullsbrook and drove along another road for a few kilometres. Then we passed by this place called Outback Splash. This used to be called The Maze but they have added a water park and expanded it considerably in the past few years. Anyway, I commented that I guess our destination wasn’t Outback Splash only to be told it was where were going. It was a bit odd to pass by a place we were headed to. We turned around on another road further along and went back to our destination. Then the Scientist went right past the entrance to the parking lot and had to turn around. I later learned these were just delaying tactics. I should have been suspicious since I know he wouldn’t easily miss these turn-offs.
Finally we were parked and went into to the entrance. But the Scientist made me wait outside for a bit while he was discussing something with staff. Finally we went through and sought out a particular “hut” (shelter) that we were aiming for. We did eventually find it and sat down at which point the Scientist did a little speech about how his plans for my birthday got ruined by covid-19 and so he was finally getting his plans into gear that day.
So I turned around to find three of my friends from tai chi there, with presents, to celebrate my 55 1/4 birthday. From my friends I got a candle and incense burner set, a tea cup with my favorite color purple, and a metal water bottle that had the color purple too. It was all very sweet.
Then we went off to the koala house to meet the koalas. We had special tickets to get up close and personal. The keeper took us through and set up a step ladder so we could pat the koala in approved locations and see what it was really like. This was my first time being so close to one. Decades ago when I was pregnant I had held a wombat and that was quite an experience. But these were the dozy koalas who were mostly sleeping. The one we had access to was agreeable enough for a while but after a few people had been up to see it, it moved itself to the back of the house and out of the way. Still we had a good look and I got a few photos on my phone.
Hello there! A bit shy Hide and seek
The koala house After this we returned to the hut and the Scientist went off to get a cake and the food he’d ordered for lunch. He came back with a huge tray of rolls with various fillings. It was a bit much for our small group of five so quite a few didn’t get eaten until much later.
Then it was time for cake and on there he’d written it was my 55 1/4 birthday and he had two candles to put on the cake. But there was the issue of blowing out candles and the idea was to remove them to a plate for the blowing part. But it didn’t matter as I expected because the breeze blew it out instead. The next thing was trying to cut the cake since there was a lack of any sort of knife. One of my friends made use of the cardboard backing of the candle and that worked enough to get the pieces we needed. It was a really yummy cake, homemade with buttercream frosting and lots of chocolate and decoration.
Special cake to celebrate my 55th birthday a few months late. Afterwards, the food was put away and we went off to the first of the mazes. We had been to the Maze years ago when the kids were much younger and had a good time. The hedge maze at the time wasn’t a thing yet because they were still growing it. But we could see where it would be. And it was quite a bit of fun although not particularly difficult. There were quite a few people going through and there was a natural reaction to just follow along but we did break rank and sought out our own pathways. It wasn’t long until we reached the center and stood on a platform looking over the maze. Then it was a pretty easy task to reach the end on the other side. I’m not saying it was simple but it wasn’t that challenging.
The second maze was a tire maze and the idea was to reach a certain point by following a color progression and jump across tires. I didn’t even realise where the goal was until after I’d gone through and come back out. I tried again and it was quite difficult to get through and we gave up. It was actually kind of tiring going round and round and there were also quite a few others doing the same but it was a lot of fun to try it out.
There was a maze/not maze with some other animals, mostly kangaroos we also visited.
Lounging around Lazy afternoon Rusty old ute
Kangaroo enclosure Next was a ring toss game that we all tried to play and had varying degrees of success. I managed to get one ring on the whole time. We took turns until we reach the goal on that one.
The last maze was the main attraction, a wooden maze that had several flags you needed to reach. I remember this from our previous visit and Game Fanatic was instrumental in helping us find all the flags. This time we made it through to a couple of flags and that was okay. The third flag was also doable. But trying to get to the next one proved a bit too difficult and we ended up going in circles and not getting any closer to our target. It was around this time my bladder made its needs known and it wasn’t too much trouble to get back out of the maze. I went off to to the toilets and the others came out of the maze and that was the end of that. I’d had stuck it out had my bladder not been so insistent.
Next we moved on to the mini golf part of the park. This was no great version of mini golf but we still had fun giving a shot. I managed to do par on one hole. The rest were kind of all over the place.
Afterwards, one of my friends bought us ice cream and we sat at a table outside the café to eat. It was in the midst of this final treat that the music that had been playing stopped and it was clear the place was closing down. So after we finished we left and came home. There had been ideas of carrying on the celebration afterwards by having a bit of a games night elsewhere but not all of us could go so we opted to leave it at that.
It was later that I realised it would have been better to say it was my 55 1/3 birthday since it was actually four months after my birthday so that was another fun aspect of the day. It was kind of surreal to be having a birthday celebration months later but it was definitely a unique one as my birthdays go. Even better was the fact that Lego Lover helped me finish the cake later on. He’s a bit iffy on cakes that leave the house but he was happy to enjoy all.
I will also point out the boys were both quite helpful in preparations. Lego Lover had the task of keeping me shopping on the Friday night while the Scientist worked on the cake. Game Fanatic kept watch to keep me out of the kitchen later that evening and even into the Saturday. It was very much a family project even though the boys didn’t come along.
Overall it was the most memorable birthday I’ve had in years. My 50th was another prominent one with a party at home but this was a totally different sort of thing. All great fun to share with the Scientist and my friends.
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Double Nickels
This is what my cousin called turning 55. I hadn’t thought of this before but maybe it’s because I’ve been away from nickels for too long. :) She is only five months older than me so we reach these milestones close together. Anyway, yesterday was my 55th birthday. I guess I am another year older and wiser. At least I hope so.
It was a low-key kind of day in the end. The Scientist has been working many extra hours the past week for a project that’s about to be demo’ed. Still, he managed to take some time off in the late-afternoon and evening. He made a lovely cake for me, complete with my name and strawberries. It was very yummy. For dinner we had takeout food from an Ethiopian place we hadn’t visited for quite a while. My favorite thing there is a sampler of five different vegetarian foods with two injera pancakes. It was the first thing I’d tried from there and I still get it because it’s just too hard to decide on a single thing.
I spent the day playing Animal Crossing, for the most part. I was really getting into it and have built up quite a bit of my little island now. But I have lots to go. I have heard stories of people fast-forwarding time to get things done more quickly but I honestly don’t see the fun in that at all. I learned my younger brother’s family is also playing so maybe we can connect and visit each others’ islands…
It’s weird to think I’m on the climb towards sixty now.
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Revisiting purple
The last time I’d gotten my hair done was at the end of October, just before I went home for my holiday. Earlier this month I noted it was looking a lot greyer than it has in close to a year and I decided it might be good to get it done before my birthday. I managed to squeeze in an appointment the Tuesday beforehand and I went to the hair salon in our closest shopping center. This place is run by the same person who runs the place I’ve gone the last few times and the pricing is pretty much the same but it’s a smaller shop.
This time I got the actual owner of the place and when I asked to get my hair colour in purple, she didn’t give me any fuss. This is different than the two male hairdressers I’d been to at the other shop. The first one steered me away from purple for some reason. The second one seemed to think it wasn’t a good idea and pushed for me to just stick to the colour I already had. So I guess this was progress in the end.
The hairdresser was quite friendly and she did her work in a reasonable time. I didn’t have my glasses on while she was working so I really couldn’t see the colour until the very end. She kept telling me it would look more purple once it dried but I really couldn’t see it enough to judge a colour. Anyway it came out darker than it’s been and the purple isn’t terribly obvious but it is visible, especially when in the sun and good light. And again it makes me look a lot younger than my 53 years. I think the ridding of the grey is the big part of it. I really like this colour and plan to get a touch up before we go on our trip to Thailand in May to keep the roots looking decent. The colour also seems to match my glasses frames so I think it works out. Too bad I didn’t get her to do my eyebrows…lol.
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Ready in advance.
I have already bought all the presents for Game Fanatic’s birthday this year. Usually I’m still looking or waiting during the last few days but I had everything finished by late last week. One of the items was a pre-order that was delivered and the others I got on sale. The last one was a particularly good price too.
On a related note, I have already submitted my tax forms and gotten my refund, which is about a month early. I often procrastinate until late October but the Scientist needed the amount of my taxable income so he could complete his tax so I got it done sooner than usual. (He wants this earlier every year but I still manage to put it off…:( .
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Christmas
Our Christmas went really well. It was a pretty low-key day with just family over during the evening. Normally we go to a breakfast that is hosted by family friends on Christmas Day but it was cancelled this year and we were home all day. Actually, that’s not entirely true because I went out to a shop at some local markets that was open to get a couple things needed for food preparation. The shop was pretty busy, probably because aside from another major shop and some food outlets, every other place around was closed.
While the annual breakfast is nice, It was also good to sleep in and not to be rushing off early in the day. I wanted to do this when the kids were younger but it kind of became an obligatory thing and so it has continued.
While the boys enjoyed their Christmas gifts, the Scientist and I worked on various tasks before family came over in the evening. The evening went really well with everyone enjoying the food. There was too much again and I can’t help thinking I might only make one veggie item next year instead of a salad and veggie item. I usually do veggie chickpea patties but changed to a different type this year. The new recipe was a lot easier and less time consuming and it came out well. I was going to look for the recipe but now I can’t recall it and it’s been so long I don’t know if I will find it again. I also made tabbouleh this time and it came out pretty well for a first try. Most of the works seems to be chopping up the herbs. The wheat bulgur is pretty quick and easy to cook. The Scientist prepared a turkey and also a roast beef because Lego Lover doesn’t like turkey.
We ate outside on the patio and had a nice relaxing time with the family for a long while afterwards. Then Game Fanatic had organised some party games to be played using his laptop and the tv. That turned out to be lots of fun and before we knew it, 9pm rolled around and everyone was still here and wanting to play a bit more. But soon afterwards things did wrap up and almost everyone left. It was at this point while saying goodbye to the Scientist’s brother that we realised we hadn’t done the birthday cake for this BIL. The Scientist and I did a quick sing of Happy birthday and then we cut the cake and sent him home with some. The rest was left here for us to eat. We’ve never forgotten before so it was pretty embarrassing and I think the Scientist felt the worst about it…just that we were all so wrapped up in the other parts it got overlooked. Anyway…
After that there was tag team clean up with the Scientist and I taking turns washing dishes until he finally went to bed. Almost everything was cleaned up so it looked pretty good in here. Then it was just time to relax a bit until the evening was over. And then it was done and dusted, as they say around here.
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All adults here
Lego Lover turned eighteen last month and the house is now filled with adults. Sure, maybe some of the adults are still quite dependent up the parents, but they are still legally adults. That’s kind of weird to think about because part of me still thinks of that baby and little boy when I think of him.
The birthday itself was pretty quiet. Lego Lover wasn’t interested in any sort of party so it was just us plus the Scientist’s mum, who dropped by early in the day. He got some of the presents he was hoping for and I went out and got another one for him on the day because the item in question was finally available. He asked for tandoori chicken for his birthday meal. Last year he’d asked for pizza from our local shop but he found it made him too full. The chicken came out well with some basmati rice. Later on we played some video games that were of interest and it was all good.
Later in the night, after his birthday was technically over, we had a rather emotional chat that touched on subjects that needed to be discussed. I won’t share that here but I will say it was good for us to share what we did. It was one of those times when it became clear what sort of things matter most to him…at least the ones that he isn’t already quite vocal about.
Anyway, Lego Lover is such an amazing young man and he continues to grow and become more interesting all the time. I must remember this when we are dealing with the harder stuff because it’s so easy to get lost in the tedious everyday issues.
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Anniversaries
Three days ago, it marked one year since our cat died from injuries likely caused by a dog attack. In some ways it seems a long time ago then it doesn’t seem so long ago. There are still the occasions when I return home and expect to see her lazily walking down the driveway, making me wait to pull the car in. :) I changed my Facebook picture to one with her in it last year but I think I will soon change to something new since it’s already been over a year.
Today would have been my close friend’s birthday if she were alive. This is my local close friend who died four and a half years ago from bowel cancer. She should be 54 now. She is still on my mind a lot of the time but so it’s kind of weird to think it’s been so long since we talked now.
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22 years being a mother
It was around this time 22 years ago today that I became a mother for the first time after a long night of full-on labour. Some aspects of being a mother have been as expected but there have been lots of surprises along the way. Game Fanatic is like no other person his age but he is still amazing and remarkable in his own ways.
Happy birthday to Game Fanatic. Hope today will be a great day for him and I have good thoughts for his year ahead.
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End of being fifty
A year ago I had my fiftieth birthday and I was kind of excited about it. Aside from the year I turned twenty, I have never been very bothered by birthdays with regard to getting older. Last year was no exception and it was kind of cool reaching that nice milestone. I didn’t think about it too much but as I approached my birthday recently, I was feeling a bit sad because my year of being fifty was drawing to a close.
On Wednesday I reached fifty-one and it’s just not quite the same. I liked being fifty quite a bit. I’m still not bothered about yet another year but I think perhaps that was my favorite year as ages go. Funny how that came to be without me really realising it until it was nearly over.
As for my birthday itself, it was a nice one. It was very low-key and I guess that’s how it should be after such a big one last year. It was just as well because I wasn’t feeling particularly great on the day. On Monday, my left shoulder suddenly started hurting for no apparent reason. It was better on Tuesday but didn’t feel great on Wednesday. On top of that, my period started early and it has been a rather unpleasant one…menopause is still a ways off, I guess. I’m still not feeling all that great a couple days later, enough that the planned visit to Fremantle was called off. I was up for it in one way but probably wouldn’t have dealt with it that well and we stayed home instead. I started back on iron tablets today because I figure I probably need them although I haven’t had that checked in a while.
Anyway, the birthday was nice. The Scientist took me out to lunch at a cafe we’d been wanting to try for a little while. It’s kind of a fusion east Asian sort of place. I chose stir-fried udon noodles and they were yummy. The sauce was a bit on the sweet side but it was good. I then got a bubble tea from one of my favoirte tea places, which also quite good. After that we came home and I got my presents. My gift from the Scientist is a fancy flash unit for my camera. I’ve been frustrated with the flash on mine for a while so I look forward to working out how to use it properly. The boys (really Game Fanatic) got me game for the Wii U with a few accesories and also got me a coupld of games to play on his Playstation 4. I haven’t tried out the Playstation games yet but they should get a bit of a workout over the weekend, particularly after I am feeling better. Not sure if I will play today or not since I’m feeling a bit run down.
The Scientist made me a nice chocolate cake which was enjoyed by all. I think Lego Lover particularly liked it since he ate so much of it. :) The Scientist’s mum came over in the evening and gave me a couple of things, including this lovely top that she got in Sri Lanka. And it even fits nicely too. She also got one those cards that you color in did it up for me. It was quite special.
I talked to my mom on Skype just after midnight at the start of my birthday and got many messages from friends and family via email and Facebook. It’s really nice to feel so loved.
So I guess now the thing is to get used to not being fifty any more. I’ll just have to put up with these odd years for the moment, particularly as I’m in no hurry to reach sixty. :D
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Holiday photos
I just finished sorting, processing, uploading and detailing photos for the first two days of my holiday. They are in the album Auckland Day 1&2 in the Auckland Holiday collection and it will be in chronological order if viewed within the album.
You can find the album here.
Still to come:
- Day 3 (and beyond)
- Turning 50
- Birthday Surprise
- Absent-mindedly almost 50
I’m hoping to continue the Auckland posts shortly but may do birthday/turning 50 posts before that since it’s still quite fresh in my mind.
Perhaps when I get caught up, I will think about creating a gallery for my trip on this website, probably with a pared down collection.