• Daily life

    The beginning of the end

    When your child is born, he or she is really your child for ever. But the childhood of your child doesn’t last forever. And that is where we are with Game Fanatic. He is seventeen years old today and will be an adult a year from now. At least by the standards of our society. Kind of weird to think about. And also kind of cool.

    Happy birthday to my Game Fanatic! Enjoy this last year of childhood.

  • Entertainment,  Family

    Red letter day

    Yesterday was a family version of what some might call a red letter day. The excitement has been building for months, heightening in the past few weeks. March 10th was the date of release for not one, but two very important games. That was specifically the case for Game Fanatic, who was enthusiastic for both. Both he and Lego Lover have been awaiting the release of Pokémon Black and White for nearly a year. Game Fanatic also had a copy of Dragon Age 2 on pre-order at EB Games and had definite ideas of how the day would go once he got his copy.

    The pre-order turned out to be a major mistake because the retailer kept changing the price so that the final price to pay was quite a bit higher than the advertised price. It now occurs to me that had the price been paid in full when the product was reserved, he would have got the lower price. Lesson learned. The shop was supposed to contact us to advise the product was in, but this didn’t happen at all. I finally telephoned at noon to be told it was in and that I should have been notified.

    The boys got ready and we went off to the shopping center to make purchases. There was a bit of a crowd in EB Games when we arrived and we had to wait for about ten or fifteen minutes to be served. Once the product was in hand, the sales dude tried to sell several other products, none of them related to the game being purchased.  Payment was made and we moved on to see about the Pokemon games.

    We got to the store that had advertised the best price on Pokémon yesterday, only to find no copies on the shelf. In fact, there were none in stock. There was something about floods preventing the train, which held the precious cargo, from crossing from the east into our isolated capital. There was something of a sense of déja vu about it since this is a similar story to what we’ve heard for other highly anticipated video games in the past. (It  hasn’t always been a flood, but is often a train derailment that is to blame.) We moved on to the store with the next best price to hear the same story. It was also revealed that the other major discount retailer was in the same situation, along with JB HiFi, one of the major resellers of video games locally.

    I don’t know why, but EB Games always has games in stock on the day, no matter whether there has been a train delay due to derailment/floods/some other crisis or not. I don’t know how they manage this when so many other stores fail to get theirs. Maybe all the stores get their shipments from the same cargo load.

    I already knew the games were in stock at EB Games since several people had picked up copies that had been pre-ordered. They were charging $21 more than the lowest price though. We were in a stuck situation because Lego Lover just had to have his game on the day and he was willing to pay the extra since that’s what he had originally set aside from his budget anyway. Game Fanatic tried very hard to persuade him to wait but he would not be swayed. I wasn’t happy about it but was not stopping him spending extra if that’s really what he wanted. We had an appointment not too far in the future so we got the game at a higher price. Game Fanatic was quite distressed by this chain of events and was far more upset than anyone else, even though he had not been directly affected.

    We came home and Lego Lover immediately started playing his new game. The night before, he’d stayed up late working on school work so that he’d be free to play all day yesterday. He happily played for many hours with the occasional break. Game Fanatic had a doctor appointment to attend so delayed setting his game up due to lack of time. When we returned, he got properly started and played for many hours into the evening.

    Because this was such a special day, Game Fanatic asked to have his favorite meal, a rice pilaf sort of dish (with chickpeas, mushrooms, potato and Spanish chorizo sausage), to celebrate and I obliged him. Fortunately, I can now make the dish fairly easily with our pressure cooker and it doesn’t heat up the kitchen these days. The Scientist and I even got a bottle of fancy sparkling apple juice to aid in the celebration since Game Fanatic likes it so much. I will point out that Lego Lover isn’t much concerned about special foods for this sort of occasion and he doesn’t like any of the foods prepared so had an alternative. And we forgot about the apple drink last night so didn’t have that until today.

    I know for a fact that Lego Lover had a great day. And I think Game Fanatic had an overall good day even though he gets a bit caught up in the negative details at times.

    Since Game Fanatic was keen to get his own copy of Pokémon, I did some calling around this morning to work out if any other shops had copies now available. This included one phone call where I spent ages on hold while waiting to be transferred, only to have phone disconnect when the call finally got through. Eventually I worked out that Dick Smith Electronics did have copies available, and at just a couple dollars higher than the cheapest price. This absolutely sickened me because they had a store in the same shopping center and quite possibly did have them in stock when we were there. Just meters from the EB Games store, in fact. I never considered them because I thought I’d seen them advertise a much higher price. And I didn’t think of them at all when we ran into supply issues elsewhere. Today, that store didn’t have any stock available but another one nearby did. The Scientist phoned them and reserved a copy. Game Fanatic and I left soon afterwards and were there in less than twenty minutes. So today, Game Fanatic has been switching back and forth from one game to another and seems reasonably content.

    Since it was my stupid lack of thought that cost Lego Lover the extra money, I gave him back $20 of the extra he had paid. He shrugged his shoulders and stashed it with his other money in an old Bionicle box. He is still quite happy with his new game.

  • Family

    Has it been that long?

    I didn’t realise it had been over a month since my last post….sigh…We are still here and life does carry on, of course.

    Last week our Game Fanatic reached his sixteenth birthday. It’s kind of weird to think about how close he is to adulthood. By the reckoning of one government department here called Centrelink, he actually is an adult, and is able to claim certain payments himself. It seems very strange when he isn’t able to vote or drink until he is eighteen. For his birthday, I baked him a lemon madeira cake because he has recently taken a liking to lemony things. Game Fanatic doesn’t care much for cake but he likes this one enough that he asked me yesterday if I could make another one. I also baked a Jamie Oliver Bloomin’ brownie recipe that was somewhat less successful. It was fine for a serious lover of dark chocolate. But it was kind of chocolate overkill for us and was only helped by adding some vanilla ice cream. He asked for my rice pilaf with Spanish chorizo, chickpeas, mushrooms and potato as it’s a favorite dish I cook. The rice often is not cooked properly  no matter which method I use but this time I did it in the pressure cooker and timed it so that it came out beautifully. He was quite happy with his gifts but they were on his list so there shouldn’t have been any problem there.  We gave him a console game that he wanted along with a dvd set of an anime series he liked watching a few years ago. All his other presents were money that he is still working out how to spend.

  • Daily life,  Family

    Fifteen already

    Last week, Game Fanatic reached the milestone of completing his fifteenth year. In no time at all he will be an adult. Here in Australia he’s now old enough to watch movies and play games that are rated M or MA. Celebrations were pretty low-key with family visiting on the day before (Sunday). This was planned specifically to get the anxiety and stress he experiences out of the way ahead of time. I think it worked pretty well in the end. He really wanted to wait for his birthday to open presents but some really wanted to see him open presents. So he opened those from the family. That night he was lamenting that he’d not have much to open on his birthday since he was expecting one thing from us. I think he was pleasantly surprised the next day when he had not one, but four presents from us. Game Fanatic creates a birthday and Christmas wish list each year with considerable care and we mostly stick to his list when buying gifts as he’s not terribly fond if being surprised. I managed to find two games from his list secondhand at EB Games on the weekend at a lower price than expected. One was a very rare game that I just lucked out finding. I’d also bought him a copy of Watership Down, one of his favorite books, from Book Depository a while back when purchasing Asterix books for his brother. I decided to keep that as a small surprise gift and I think he was quite pleased to get it. There were a couple of occasions where we were in a book shop  recently where he’d gone looking for it so it was a relief that it wasn’t in stock any of those times. The last gift was a copy of Life of Brian by Monty Python, another surprise. He spent most of his birthday playing the game he’d been given the day before while waiting for his dad to get home from work (early). The rest of the day was spent trying out the new games and spending time with the immediate family. He’d be unlikely to express the feeling, but I think he had a really nice day this year.

  • ADD,  Body and Mind

    Progress, I think

    I haven’t written all that much about Game Fanatic lately. All things considered, I think he’s doing pretty well. But his anxiety levels remain high and this continues to disable him in many areas of his life. We’ve been plodding along with medications and therapy over the past six or seven months. He sees a psychiatrist every four to six weeks, mainly with regard to medication. Until recently, he hardly spoke at these appointments but he’s been able to have a reasonable conversation the last two visits. Due to his inability to speak, I’ve been speaking to the psychologist about him over most of this year. I find it incredibly exhausting and I started to feel like it wasn’t very productive because the only effect seemed to be that my own anxiety levels have increased over the year. Game Fanatic did start back with his own appointments recently and I think there is some progress in communication there.

    Socially, he chose recently to rejoin his fortnightly Sunday Dungeons and Dragons group after being away for over a year. They no longer meet at the original location so this involved going to a new place.  Although I know it was overwhelming for him, I think he managed it really well and should improve in the future. He’s not been satisfied with the progress of his weekly D&D group for a while because it moves too slowly. But the Sunday group was ripping along over the three and a half hours they played. It’s also a more mature group and I think this is also beneficial for him.

    He’s been on medication for most of this year. There have been two constants throughout this time, one which apparently can take a long time to show obvious effects. The other medication is for attention issues and should have shown effect some time ago. The only thing we’ve worked out, though, is that it decreases  his appetite. I think he finally is having some good feelings about some of the positive changes from that now, even though he’d be unlikely to admit it yet. So we will continue to plod along and hopefully progress will continue even though it may be very slow to occur.

  • Family

    Another year older

    The Scientist passed another birthday today, and it has gone well, I think. Lego Lover and I hatched a plan to get him a Lego Mindstorm set many months ago. I’ve been putting aside money all year and the Scientist’s parents contributed significantly towards the total. I paid for it in cash so there’s no financial pressure to pay it off now. The Scientist and Lego Lover should have some great times ahead of them as they work out how to use it.

    The Scientist also got a copy of Ironman from Game Fanatic. This was something of a surprise, too, because Game Fanatic has made a habit of giving only games as gifts the last year or two. The Scientist is quite pleased because he’s been wanting this film on dvd since it came out.

    I baked a ginger cake at the Scientist’s request and it came out really nicely. I’ve been having too many mishaps when baking lately so it was nice to have success on this one. Lego Lover thought it tasted great, too, which made it doubly pleasing for me.

    The day itself seemed to go quite well and I think the Scientist thoroughly enjoyed himself. Hopefully he’s now having a good night’s rest.